While these people have some fine qualities they are forced to cope with two opposite influences that work against each other. On the one hand they draw from an urge to please and to serve others while they are compelled by another force to exert their own strong views. They are both soft and accommodating, as well as strong and independent. This sounds like a nice balance but it creates difficulties in their lives. Even as they express themselves verbally they know that it is not coming out or flowing as they feel it should. There is a candidness that belies their true intention. They mean one thing and say another, and have great difficulty in finding the right words at times. When this occurs they feel apologetic and usually say or dismiss their remarks with a laugh or humorous remark in order not to offend. In their deepest desires they love to keep the peace between people. They are sensitive inwardly, and are easily offended and hurt by unkind words.
They are awkward in responding appropriately in difficult situations. Their blunt manner has an effect on others that they feel and regret. Their longing for a deep contact with others is frustrated because of an inability to truly understand and communicate with others. These conflicting forces have the effect of sometimes producing an anti-social feeling caused by not always fitting in. These two opposing qualities tend to direct their thoughts to their own life. It undermines the power of the intellect and the ease of debate. At times the approach will be to agree or submit in conversation and at other times there is a display of stubbornness that will cause alienation. On the positive side these types can be loyal and steadfast in their associations. They have a great desire to help out wherever they can, and with the friends they have they will stick by them under all circumstances. They are not deep or particularly philosophical, and will therefore conform to the general trend of thought and prevailing concepts of the day.
They can be hard-working, but because of this split in their character they must be careful to watch their health and diet. They require periods of rest in between their work or their body will not withstand the rigors of too much physical exertion. These people have a good heart and good intentions but fail to demonstrate their affections to others. Human consciousness is made up of different qualities or character traits and it is knowing how to balance them that leads to success. The balance of the name reveals our potential for accomplishment in all areas of life. In health these people have a weakness in the kidneys as well as in the senses of the head.
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